For many Caribbean women, this can feel mystifying, as if your dating lives are cursed. We chalk it up to bad luck, or worse, we feel that we’re simply not worthy of love and affection.
10 Rules For Caribbean Women Who Are Unlucky In Love Do you find yourself always dating the “wrong people?” Are you consistently neglected, mistreated, or just plain bored? For many Caribbean women, this can feel mystifying, as if your dating lives are cursed. We chalk it up to bad luck, or worse, we feel that we’re simply not worthy of love and affection.
Do you ever wonder why you can’t seem to close the deal and get him to fall for you? Do you feel lucky in life but unlucky in love? How is it that everyone seems to be falling in love except you? If you’re a Caribbean woman and you are single right now and want the right person in your life, this is for you.
What you really need to do, instead of thinking you are unlucky in love, is to change your mindset. That’s going to be the hardest part, but, when you change the way you think, you attract a completely different type of person. It’s time to break out! For Caribbean women looking for how to find love, here are some rules you should always follow if you want success.
1: Let go: If you had a bad date, let it go. They aren’t worth holding on to for all the negative energy. If you try to change your ways but you still keep meeting losers, it’s okay. You need time to work on yourself. Letting go will make dating fun.
2: Don’t try so hard. So, this may be hard for some of you, but stop trying so hard. Sure, go on dating sites and talk to people, but don’t push too hard. If they want to meet you, they’ll meet you. If they don’t, then move on. That’s the best way of being in the dating world. Don’t try too hard and don’t take it so seriously. People smell desperation a mile away.
3: Hold no expectations. You have a list of traits that you want your partner to have and that’s fine. But don’t expect them to also be millionaires with Porsches. That’s not what this is about. If you have too many expectations, well, you’re going to be disappointed. The person you’re on a date with isn’t going to ask you to marry them right now. Expect nothing and you’ll always be pleasantly surprised.
4: Don’t call him: You need to understand one thing, if a guy wants you, he chases you. I know, nowadays it’s cool for a girl to call a guy, but at the end of the day, men love to chase. Let them have that chance to chase you, unless he’s extremely shy.
5: Stop crying over them. If you spend your weekends crying over a date that went bad, oh trust me, you waste your time. Shed no tears for no one, unless of course, you were actually in a relationship. Crying over someone isn’t going to get you anywhere. You need to brush the failed dates off your shoulder and go onto the next.
6: Keep some mystery: Keep yourself a little mysterious, that’s what keeps people’s attention. You know, everyone wants to get to know someone who looks like they have something more to give.
7: Stop blaming it on men: I hear it all the time from women. They complain about how shitty men are. But it’s not them. It’s you. This is all on you. Why? Because you keep going for the wrong person. You go for people who don’t actually want to be with you and that’s what creates this vicious cycle of disappointment.
8: Stop going after the wrong guy. You have this image of the perfect partner in your mind, I get it. But what usually happens is that while you hunt for that person, you miss out on all the other great people that are available.
9: Be yourself. Maybe you’re not finding the right person because you try to be someone you’re not. Maybe you want to find a hipster-type guy but that’s not your style. You don’t have to be a hipster in order to attract one. Just be yourself.
10: Take a chance. You need to take chances. I know you probably think that you’re not sure about this person, but why not give it a chance? You may surprise yourself with how well it goes. The point is, don’t be so quick to knock something down if you haven’t given it a proper go. If you thought you were unlucky in love, think again. You just need to follow these rules and you’ll be on a new path for successfully finding love.